More Effective Communication - Weight Loss For Your Mouth
Language constitutes our belief system. What we believe is true for us or our version of reality at large. One way of re-patterning our beliefs to give us more of the experiences we want in life is to change the way that we speak. Here are some words to begin the process. Use the substitution words as noted. To further affirm this, use 5 practice sentences where the old word would have been used and use the new word instead. Have fun!
1. Try - Implies Failure
People often use this word to stop short of making a full out commitment. e.g. Try to pick up a pencil Think about Yoda: "... .do or do not,there is no try." In your speech, substitute "will" or "make a commitment". When someone else uses the word "try", ask, "does that mean you will?"
2. Can't - You don't know how to or don't want to.
If you don't know how to then you can learn. If you don't want to, then that is another issue altogether.
3. But - Negates everything before it.
Replace "but" with "and." Example: "I want to be a successful investor, but it takes a lot of time" changes to "I want to be a successful investor, but it takes a lot of time."
4. Hope - Reveals a deficit of assuredness and confidence.
Substitute hope with know. Example: "I hope we can work this out somehow," becomes, "I know we can work this out somehow."
5. If - Limiting, because it places conditions on what you want to to accomplish.
It pre-supposes that the goal may be impeded by negative things. Replace "if" with "when." This word pre-supposes that the accomplishment of the goal in spite of what may come up. "When" exhibits confidence in the outcome that you want to achieve. Example: "if we reach our goal..." vs. "when we reach our goal... ."
6. Problem - This may sound trite, but would you rather have problems or challenges?
7. Cost - Everyone likes to make an investment. Consider this: is it really a down payment or an investment? Implementing powerful language creates a different relationship between us and our clients. Think: is it a deposit or an initial investment?? How many things in your life have you been calling costs that are really investments of a type?
Eric Johnson is a regular contributor to the Investor's Value View financial newsletter. To learn how to contact Mr. Johnson or to subscribe to the Investor's Value View newsletter, visit http://www.valueview.net
WNQA Articles:
10 Tips to Supplement a Weight Loss Diet and Exercise Program
As the northern hemisphere winter starts in earnest, the furthest thing on the mind of most Europeans and North Americans is the need to start dieting now That's something that's usually left until after the Christmas and New Year festivities
The House Designers is Now Better Homes and Gardens® Exclusive Online Home Plan Provider
The House Designers is now BHG.com's exclusive home plan provider. Choose from over 4,000 best-selling house plans from the leading architects and designers in the United States.
New Online Nutrition Service Features Diet and Weight Loss Tips That Work
Don't fall for another fad diet, HyperStrike's Online Nutrition Programs are for safe and permanent weight loss
4 Important Tips on Quick Weight Loss Diet Plan
One thing must be true about quick weight loss diet plan, it has to be as realistic as possible. How many times have you browsed on lists of sophisticated diet plans in magazines only to toss them back to the bin afterwards? Many diet plans are jargons. They give impression that some in the lists are available in the outer space. It has to be easy to follow, clear and practical.
Healthy Weight Loss - Diet Plan Tips
So you want to lose a few pounds and you have been told that not eating for a few days can help you achieve this and it is true you will lose weight but this is not the way to lose or control weight as any doctor will attest too. Our health is a finely balanced mechanism which relies on a number of factors especially on the foods we eat so healthy weight loss does not mean starvation which usually weakens our immune system.
Single Parenting Problems - Mothers As Single Parents In USA
Single mothers face a lot of problems while bringing up children in USA Financial problems being the most important as ex-husband may not pay the court order money for child support
Online Dating Singles Advice: Become a Australian Marriage Statistic
The average Australian family no longer necessarily consists of a mother, father and children In today?s society we find a variety of different set ups living happily side by side
Dating Advice that Covers Online Dating to Accepting a Marriage Proposal
Dating is no longer difficult as the Professors House guides you from landing a date to walking down the aisle.
Online Dating Advice For Singles - Online Speed Dating
Speed dating is all the vogue these days among busy singles This information talks about what exactly it is, and how can it be carried out online
Free Weight Loss Advice With Purchase of New 101 Weight Loss Tips eBook
Dr. Alan Jenks has authored The Doctors Thin, an eBook with 101 weight loss tips with bonuses that get right to the point of losing pounds quickly. Tested and proven tips are bolded, followed by in-depth explanations of why the tips work. Free weight loss advice is available through email with purchase of book.
Online Dating Top Do's and Don'ts : OnlineBootyCall.com Publishes Dating Tips for Singles
Moses Brown, Founder and CEO of OnlineBootyCall.com (OBC), the fastest growing casual dating website, announced his best tips for singles dating online. As an active member of Online Booty Call and numerous dating services, Brown knows a great deal about the Do's and Don'ts of online dating. This experience has made him an authority on dating, and his advice will improve your chances of meeting singles online.
A Weight Loss Diet Tip That Really Works
Many people search for a magical weight loss diet tip that will help them shed the pounds and keep them off. But is there really any such thing? If all the best information could be packaged into one workable piece of advice, then maybe that would be the magical tip people yearn for.
Tips Of Positive Parenting Skills - Parenting Guidelines For Single Mothers
Raising children as a single mother is a challenge There are moments when you find that your life is in complete disarray and your house is in complete chaos